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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He stopped drinking--easily--and has been sober for five months, at your request. He asks you permission to drink, and when you say that he can't, he doesn't. You go on vacation, go out to dinner just the two of you, and he has three glasses of wine. One time. On vacation. This is a huge problem for you, and you seem to think that you're the victim here. Is that correct?[/quote] Not the OP, but yes, that is a huge problem when you are married to an alcoholic. Bottom line? He shouldn't have any because he can't control himself. He orchastrates the the situation so that no matter what happens, he is not at fault. OP, I am sorry you have to go through this. My dad was just like this. My mother finally told him she was going to leave if he didn't stop drinking. You can't, nor should you, be response sidle for your husband's actions, but you CAN control how you react. [/quote]
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