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[quote=Anonymous]"OK, last question from me: If I click on a guy's profile and it says that he has viewed my profile, should I email him? I assume that if he has already seen my profile and was interested he would have emailed me or winked or liked. Is it safe to assume he is not interested or should I email him anyway? again, don't want to appear desperate."

Yes, email him!  You're not going to look desperate - once you get more experienced, you'll realize most people don't spend time analyzing whether or when someone viewed a profile.  As PP said, there's no way to know what is going on with the other person - maybe he's not interested, but it also could be that he was interrupted and didn't have time to email, or he was overwhelmed by choice and couldn't narrow his decision.  You won't know until you've spent put in a few quality emails, and perhaps met in person a few times, what anyone's story is.

I've heard so many (usually still single) people say that they tried internet dating but it didn't work, yet when they really didn't stick with it - they either gave up after a week, or they only go online a few times a month.  If you really want to meet a quality person, you really need to put the time into it.  There are plenty of blogs and articles on creating good profiles; Google them and revisit yours.  Then a have a few friends review and edit your profile.  If you don't have some good photos, have someone take some.  And make a point of emailing at least one person daily (or 2 every other day, whatever works best with your schedule).[/quote]

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