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[quote=Anonymous]I appreciate your post @ 17:01 but I think competetion can be a great tool to push children to go higher. Recognizing where the bar is (highest grades or accomplishments) lets all know that a certain level of excellence is achievable. It has worked well for me and many/most of my friends. I am saddened to hear that your DD transferred out because that is tough for any child. I truly hope that she found the right place for her when she left.

I obvioulsy don't know all of the circumstances but recognize some parents encourage their children differently than others. Who am I to criticize or critique the relationship between a parent and child? I believe children will probably have to learn to strive for excellence no matter where they are: academics, athlectics, college, clubs, sororities, life, Corporate America. Please know that does not mean I want her to be the cut throat back-biting mean girl. Also, competition does not have to mean that kids don't get along. My daugher and her best friend are ranked 1 and 2 for their grade. Most of the friends I mentioned above were the same girls that I "competed" with in class, cheerleading squad, and other leadhership positions. We are friends to this day. 25+ years later.

Mainly, I recognize my daughter is not me. Maybe "competive" is not the right word for what I want to see grow in her. Either way, I want her to achieve in life and would like a school setting that will help me get her there.

Again, thanks for your comments. Wishing your daughter the best![/quote]

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