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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My great grandmother just passed away and even though I want to go to pay my respects I just don't think it will turn out good. Since I don't drive I will be forced to take a road trip with my mom and brother. Then stay in a hotel room with theme the issues come in that one, Me and my family have a terrible drama filled relationship. My youngest brother is very disrespectful and my mother defends. My mom mood is moody it's either her way or she's ready to try and fight you. We have never been able to get alone for long periods of time. And my grandmother is in denial (we have a small family). I'm tired of being the underdog in my family. I'm constantly supposed to take all the low blows and disrespect from everyone around me and never say anything.I've made several attempts to set boundaries with my family and it never works. It's clear my family will never respect me and I'm tired. I'm honestly to the point where I'm ready to distant myself from them. The stress of being around them has been to much.  I'm going through a lot of other things also and just think this will be to much am I wrong for not going?[/quote]

1. Call your grandma and express your condolences.
2. Call your mom and express your condolences.
3. Tell them that you just can't go because of work, school, whatever.
4.  Send flowers.
5. Don't go. [/quote]

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