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[quote=Anonymous]Your DH sounds like an ass. I've been there ....2 kids and a baby who I'm nursing. DH has never woken up early with there kids, not ever. Once my baby was yo at 6. And I was so drained I asked DH who was already up if I could put the 4 month old in the bouncer in the bathroom while he showered and dressed for work. He was appalled at me for suggesting it. He couldn't fathom an extra 40 min of sleep mean id be a better mother to the two children the rest of the day. Btw he never comes home until they're both in bed. We had a huge fight. Bad. After I called him at work and we calmly talked through my state. Explained my sleep deprivation and how I needed this from him. We had a good  talk . My got it. And things got a bit easier.

Sometimes coming back to the topic and explaining when things have calmed down can help.

Don't clean. Easier said than done, I know. I'm a first born overachiever too whose inlaws are very critical and drop by at the wink of. An eye and instead of helping criticize and if they're not criticizing bc I be already told them my opinion then I know they're doing it in their heads. Take care of yourself for your baby and other child.  [/quote]

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