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-are you sure there are no physical issues that have changed her sex drive?  
-are you not connected as much as you used to be? When was the last time you tried a new couples-only activity or hobby?     
-are you sure she isn't angry or resentful about something else?
-do you sincerely compliment her for both her looks and what she does for you and the family?[/quote]

OP here.
1. If there are physical issues, it's don't ask/don't tell.
2. We've been trying to do more of that, but running the household is a full time job that we do together.  Most of our couples-only time is in front of the TV after the kids are in bed.  
3. No, but I'd have no clue what it is.  I've certainly got my faults (we all do)[b] but when I look around, the bar is pathetically low when it comes to being a good husband.[/b]
4. Yes.  All the time.

As to someone else's question: I'm in excellent shape and I shower at least once, and often twice a day.  I'm surprised that so many people ask the question about hygiene.  Who are these cave men who aren't hygienic?  [/quote]

Actually no. The bar is pretty high for our generation. Just because you might see other men getting away with a lot doesn't mean that their wives don't notice. Spouses are expected to do much more in our time than they ever had before. See the recent NYT article on the all or nothing marriage http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/15/opinion/sunday/the-all-or-nothing-marriage.html It's pretty insightful.

I expected an awful lot of my spouse and he's lived up to it all. He's like superman and it drives me to be superwoman to him too. [/quote]

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