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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you can't avoid the issue forever. Stop enabling his behavior. Have a talk with him and tell him you are no longer willing to be the sole breadwinner and the primary childcare provider. Let him know you refuse to continue to live this way. Then tell him unless he finds a job in X weeks or months, you feel you need to separate. DH has a mental health issues as well and I understand the desire to try to be patient and let him avoid responsibility. But at the end of the day, it is his responsibility to take care of himself. I can encourage him to go to therapy, give him the number of some good providers, and listen to his concerns and anxiety about treatment. But he has to make the appointment and follow through with treatment because I refuse to live with someone with an untreated mental disorder.[/quote]
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