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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your ex should not be reading your email or your cell phone bill. If he is punishing you for things on your Facebook, he should not be your Facebook friend. At the very least, you should create a filter so that he cannot see things that you protect against him. It's not that hard to do. I think that your concern over financial dependence on him is a thing you need to start resolving now. How do you plan to become financially independent from him? I'm not talking about allowing him to stop paying child support, but having a cushion where if he spitefully withholds child support because he's angry at you, you will not go into financial freefall. I know that's a tough proposition, as I rely on the child support checks from my ex too, but it HAS to happen. You're not married to him anymore and if your child is a pre-teen, those checks will not be coming forever. As for the extended family, if he's talking shit about you to your family, you need to tell your family to cut him off. If it's his family, who cares? His family, his relationships, his problem. [/quote]
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