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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I should've listed the reasons I didn't think weekend nights were the best for a first date.  It's not the money.  I don't care about that.  It's the following.

1) It's a first date.  It should be a quick meet and greet to see if there is potential.[b]  Sat night nights have this connotation that's greater than what a first date should be.  Sat night are for true, official, yeah we like each other, type dates.[/b]

2) Weekends are precious.  While I don't mind spending a weekend night on a first date, [b]I shouldn't assume that the woman wants to give up some other social thing she has planned just to go on a first date where you don't know the person at all.[/b]

3) Added pressure.  [b]Sat night dates mean you get to be nervous about it all day Sat.  [/b]Week night dates are night because you can just knock them out and get the first date jitters out of the way.  Then if there is a follow up date, you can make it for the Sat night and be more relaxed.

But based on the comments here, I think I will just go try for a Sat dinner date at a more relaxed place (no white tablecloths) and just see what happens.  At the age of the women I am targeting (early 30s), chances are they might not have a lot of other social plans anyway so a Sat night date might be a welcome excuse to get out of the house.[/quote]

You're over thinking this. I could have a date planned a week in advance and I don't stress about it at all. I might "stress" slightly about what shoes to wear in case he lied about his height on his profile. Aside from that? Zero stress. [/quote]

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