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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would suggest that you also look into signing some sort of a post-nup. If you are a SAHM, you are unlikely to get alimony for more than 2-3 years in the event of a divorce. Given that your DH cheated, it is a good time to get an agreement drawn up that changes the alimony to a longer time period. I definitely think it is possible to survive the infidelity, but I offer the warning from personal experience. I had no idea about the current state of divorce law and how little protection there is for SAHMs. It seems heartless to talk about post-nups when your DH is trying to save the marriage, but the reality is that many marriages do not last after one spouse is cheating. Best of luck to both of you. You sound like really good people going through an awful time. [/quote]
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