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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please let me give you the other point if view. If a woman is depressed and/ or taking medications that zap her sex drive, the thought of sex in general is repulsive. I am currently going through this. I am suffering depression die to the fact that my husband has been out if work for years. I feel like there is no end in sight or a light at the end if the tunnel. How he thinks I would be interested in Sex is beyond me.  Unfortunately his inability to provide for his family has made me lose a lot of respect and interest in general. I think it's true that women look to men to provide and if they can't- or aren't willing, then there is less attraction. I'm not asking him to bear the full brunt of providing. I work full time and am the only source if income. That as well puts a ton of stress on me and makes me even less interested in sex. Really the way I feel right now is I could care less if I ever have sex again. Hopefully that will change at some point, but for now it's the furthest thing from my mind. For women sex is a lot more emotional than physical- and that his the reason I feel that many women say no. Unlike men- we don't just get interested at the drop of a hat.[/quote]

A DW here.  If I was in your situation, I would actually be having more sex with DH to feel better about the situation.

Anytiime things have become tough for us, the frequency of sex has actually increased between my DH and I.  He needs the encouragement, support and love a wife can offer, and the release in stress and feel good properties of sex.

Sex does not cost money. This is an intimacy you can provide to bolster each other's confidence.  Tough times actually calls for more sex, not less!

You were in a dual income family. Which meant that you have less risk of being without money.  This is a good thing, not a bad thing.  You are making this into a bad thing by not having sex.

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