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[quote=Anonymous]How to avoid rejection is valuable information, but it will happen. When it does happen, I think it's valuable for the wife to understand that the effect of the rejection isn't solely a lack of physical release for the guy. It can be an emotionally scarring sort of thing if done too frequently and/or for reasons that are obscure.

For example, if I were to try to initiate when she was deathly ill from the flu and she rejected me, I wouldn't take that personally. (Though why I'd be initiating at a time like that, I don't know.)

On the other hand, if she gives some vague reason about being too tired or there not being a spark or whatever; then cheerfully goes and pulls weeds from the garden or a bunch of other stuff, then I start to wonder why such mundane stuff is so much more of a priority than her sex life with me. You can go run 10 miles but can't have sex with me? Running, like sex, is something you often don't really feel like doing at first, but you like it once you get into it and you feel great afterward. Do your running shoes take you out on a date night first? [/quote]

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