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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with PP and I have found I am not alone. As my family situation was gotten worse, much to my surprise I found some of my new friends in DC were similarly situated. Maybe some of the details different but the same in needing to end a family relationship. Perhaps that is why I made a life so far from home. I also feel guilt and worry about my mom. I could get a call someday that she died. I realized though that my kids and my husband are more important. My kids didn't chose to be born and I choose to be a mother and I am determined to be a good one and not allow the craziness of my family hurt them. One thing that still stings is the judgement from my hs "friends"--I would think they could understand since they saw what happened to me as I grew up. The thing about abuse is sometimes the abuser can be kind and then awful so it's not so simple. I love my mom and I know she isn't well. When she was well, she was the best and wanted the best for me. When she wasn't well, it was inhumane and it's gotten worse so I had to do something. My dad had to do something but he sadly found a woman who also has problems. The thing I try to focus on is the here and now and here and now I have a wonderful husband and kids and friends. Nothing in life is simple but in my heart I know this is right.[/quote]

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