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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am contemplating divorce, and while I think we cannot be happy in our marriage no matter what we do (we can just get along better than we do now, but that's anything but a happy fulfilled marriage), I also think therapy will give me a better understanding of why I chose someone who was clearly very different from me and for whom I had so many reservations. 
Hopefully it will help me understand how to make better choices.[/quote]

Do individual counseling, not marital counseling.

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I did do five sessions with a therapist I used to go to before marriage, it helped a great deal. However, it just increased my feeling that the two of us are very different, and will not be happy together. However, I am not sure I am able to find someone whom I will really love and respect - because of the way I see myself and the world around me, because of my parents' family model, and many other things. That's why I want to continue a bit later. [/quote]

Yes. I get it. The most important thing you can do right now is take care of yourself. And that means exploring these issues with the right psychologist, when you're ready. Good luck to you.

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