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[quote=Anonymous]I do have sympathy because I have 3 friends in the same situation. All 3 lost the house, custody of their children, their community friends and repect.

Your husband is right unfortunately.

You have no right to live in your husband's house, you have the right to equity built during the marriage, which hopefully is not in the negative because you will be responsible for that too.
You have no right to physical custody of you children until you have built a life. That means visitation, hopefully not at your pathetic apartment.
Get a real job. Make money. Build a life. Stop being a child and letting somebody else support you. Create you own life instead of being somebody that is hanging onto somebody elses's life, your old life.

It will take you about 2 years just to be on your own 2 feet. Use this time wisely because with an Ivy education a court of law is not going to give you alimony longer than 2 years. It will take you another 2 years for your kids not to be totally embarrased by you, your living situation, and your life.

Don't go back to your husband. Husbands and male affair partners want nothing to do with the cheating wife once it is all said and done.

You pissed away a prefect life, and Ivy league education and you children's well being. Grow up![/quote]

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