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[quote=Anonymous]Sending hugs your way, OP.  I have a spouse with ADHD and money is a big issue in our relationship.  It's not that I make a lot more and always have, it's that he makes very poor decisions that significantly and negatively hurt us financially.  I think I've got a pretty good idea of what you're talking about (unlike some PPs).  One of the ways we've come up with to mitigate the impact of DH's impulsivity is to give him a reloadable bankcard.  We have agreed how much discretionary money we get each month (it's the same for both of because how much you make shouldn't affect the amount we each get).  DH still has a joint credit card that can only be used to pay for joint expenses.  I review the bills each month so I know where money is spent.  He uses his reloadable bank card for his personal expenses and if he runs out before the end of the month, too bad.  That's helped our relationship a lot.

I think seeing an attorney and a mediator is critical.  Best of luck to you.  Hugs.[/quote]

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