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Reply to "How to tell DH bad news--I messed up big time"
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[quote=Anonymous]If my husband screwed around finantially, it would count as debt accrued while we were married. If I divorced him over it, I'd still have to pay "my" share of the debt even if I had nothing to do with acquiring it. If I stayed with him, I'd not get something I wanted be it a nice trip, or just having the ability to eat out more often or buy something I wanted. If he screwed around sexually, it wouldn't incur a debt, and there'd be nothing "extra" to pay off ina divorce settlement. If I could prove adultery, I'd even stand to make some money. Humans have only been expected to be sexually faithful to one partner within the last 50 years or so. Before that, if nothing else,men could always hit up the local whore house. I'd be way more forgiving of sexual screwing around, especially if I hadn't been meeting my husband's needs as a lover. Finantial screwing around means one person gets what they want, with the expectation that the other spouse will just live with the fall-out and even clean it up, using assets and skills that wouldn't be there if the finantially bad person wasn't married. [/quote]
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