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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get why more people are not baffled why you would marry someone you were never attracted to. Drifting apart and deciding to move on happens all the time. But that's not what happened. 
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Some of us get it because we, too, have been "young and vulnerable"  and "stayed because I had a skewed idea of what relationships were supposed to be and preferred lying to myself than hurting the feelings of a guy I cared for."  I've been there but I was fortunate enough to pull myself out of it before getting married/having kids.  Even in the midst of it, I knew it was a mistake but I was too fucked up emotionally to stop before the train wreck.

OP - I do think you should consult with another therapist before making the decision to divorce.  I don't mean this is a snarky way but your DH does deserve better than what you're giving him - as do you.  Divorce while your DD is young and she'll never know the difference.  She'll also grow up having a healthier view of relationships.  Hugs.[/quote]

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