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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here it goes. Recently moved in with bf after several months of dating, we both have children from previous relationships. He had not told the ex that we were in a relationship before moving in and then she finds out through the kids that we moved in together, hell broke loose. [b]Now she claims to be pregnant with his child, math would make it that she's due in the next couple of months, since they fooled around before we began dating[/b], . She calls him  crying asking him to take her back, he keeps taking her calls and [b]i've told him how i feel disrespected[/b]. He keeps turning it back on him saying how do i think he feels going through all of this. I've hit my breaking point, but we literally just moved in and signed a 12 month lease, where do we even go from here,[b] neither of us could afford this home on our own[/b].  I walked in on a conversation he was having with her and i just lost it and told him lets tell her the truth about it all, and obviously she heard the converstion and now claims she's not letting the kids come over until there's a home study because we have problems in the home. He's staying in the basement in the meantime, claims we are done because i walked in on the conversation and blew up. I've told him how I felt and how this whole situation is making me act out of my character and how am i supposed to react. I don't know which direction to go to, he basically says i fucked it all up and that bc of my feelings he has his back against the wall concerning his kids, that i've brought more harm to the situation than help or assitance, unnecessary harm he calls it. I am just lost in what direction I am supposed to go in, any advice is greatly appreciated. [/quote]

My math tells me, you met him, barely knew him and decided to shack up with him.

Anyone who uses the phrase "he disrespected me", instantly makes me roll my eyes.

If you couldn't afford the rent, you shouldn't have moved in. You don't have a permanent relationship and either of you could have been left with having to pay the remainder of the lease.

Grow up. Be an adult.  Don't subject your kids to this kind of nonsense so they don't grow up believing this is a good way to live.[/quote]

+1000[/quote]

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