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[quote=Anonymous]OP, hang out with another friend or a variety of friends. Reading between the lines, this friend is using you to maximize her own attention. You'll meet men on your own, given a chance.

Here's a question: how does she act when you aren't specifically out to "meet men"? Does she pay attention to you and listen to your conversation about her life? Is it all just about her? If so, that's a toxic friendship.  Find another friend or group of friends who want to have fun, whether you meet guys or not.

A good friend would want to support you in meeting someone, too. She'd offer to fix you up with someone genuinely compatible or go to venues where you both get attention.

As for the remarks about "boobs," there are plenty of men looking for women of all shapes, sizes and demographics. This particularly true in the DMV, as long as you're open to meeting a variety of men as well.

Smiling does help, but I often found that if I sat down at a bar with an interesting book, a cute, charming, book loving guy would ask me about what I was reading? As long as you keep it light and enjoy the conversation, it could be a nice distraction.

Above all, don't be so down on yourself.
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