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[quote=Anonymous]I have been on both sides of this.  When I was a bit younger, I went out with a lot with friend "C."  I thought we were equally attractive, but I got hit on a lot more often.  Part of it was that she was a bit heavier, I think (but not fat), but I think it was also because she dressed a little older/more matronly and I dressed more age-appropriately, and the guys our age responded more to that.  She also had less experience with girl/guy friendships, so she was less comfortable talking to guys.  I relate well to guys.

I've also been on the other side and had friends who are definitely hotter than me and gotten hit on less.  I think I'm reasonably attractive and I have a good personality, but with a couple of girlfriends, I am always relegated to playing wingman - NOBODY hits on me when I'm with them.  I'm sur e that affects my confidence - you can feel confident, but if you go out ten times and get hit on 0 times while your friend is racking up the guys each time, it can make you feel less than confident.

Have you asked her what she thinks you're doing wrong/differently?

Online dating may work better for you if meeting guys in bars isn't.[/quote]

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