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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I know I can't react. But with the move and the holidays etc its been very very stressful and I know I'm in a very vulnerable space right now and I communicated that with my ex. But he went ahead and did his thing and now my daughgter is scarred because of his antics. Going to take a lot to get her to trust anything. She is so afraid of losing anything right now - down to not wanting me to throw away boxes, or throw away a old hanger. She blows out candles wishing that me and dad would get back together No joke.  That's the issue - She's not comfortable in my new place yet or even us not getting back together.[/quote]

no she is scarred because you made it a negative situation

if you would have taken the approach of, he is free to love and spend time with whomever he wishes - then your daughter would not have felt bad about it

you think your ex was trying to create scarring for your child?

no, he is trying to find ways to create new love and new traditions with what he has to work with.  kudos to him for trying to heal and move on[/quote]

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