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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No of course I didn't. [b]I asked him specially not to bring the girl around, he did anyway[/b] and told my kid to keep it a secret. He should have told me what he was going to do that I could process my emotions away from my daughter. That's my point, he should have manned up and told me. But the man can't communicate at all and its a big reason why I moved out. So the point is, how do I co-parent with an ass?  That's my question. Not how I handled it.

I really am looking for advice. Not snarky comments on what happened.. I'm moving forward from that and figuring out how to make sure that she doesn't feel ashamed and comfortable to tell me anything. His actions really had a big affect on her. Mind did to, of course[/quote]

You cannot control him and while you can ask whatever you want he will probably do the opposite just to piss you off and get a reaction. He has succeeded at this. So, don't ask him anything anymore and set your self up for this. also, don't cry about it in front of your daughter either. DCUM standard advice applies here: do not engage assholes. Stick to the daughter and the schedule, everything else rolls off you. 
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