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Reply to "WHY does my DH expect me to thank him profusely for any chore he does around the house?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Have you tried stopping all of the stuff you do? do the daycare dropoff and make sure the kid gets fed and dressed and cleaned, but stop ALL housework, chores. Give it a few weeks. And see how he responds. He behaves the way he does because you enable it. In pretty much every situation I've encountered where a friend or family member insists the other spouse does no housework, it's partly because the one doing the housework doesn't give them an opportunity (usually they are partly clean freaks). If you have already threatened divorce and he didn't take it seriously, that tells me that he doesn't believe you. You need to show him that you are serious about your frustration. So not doing any housework for 3 weeks would send a message that you are done with the status quo. But you have to follow it through.[/quote]
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