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Reply to "WHY does my DH expect me to thank him profusely for any chore he does around the house?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Why does your husband expect profuse thanks for doing chores? Because he is a self centered asshole. My experience has been that if there is a quality about your intended spouse that really bothers you before you get married, such that you have to say that you don't want to marry unless there will be a 50/50 partnership, you are kidding yourself if you expect that marriage and children will magically erase that quality. I would have laid down the law at the hint of "housework is woman's work" because for me, that would have been a dealbreaker. My issue with my ex was that I naively expected that he would become less of a workaholic when we got married and had children. Predictably, that did not happen. Your husband believes that his only responsibility as a member of your family is to bring home money and impregnate you. You are responsible for everything else. I bet he's a lazy lover too. Good luck with your divorce lawyer.[/quote]
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