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[quote=Anonymous]1. Get all your ducks in a row. Save money, get emotional support from others (see #2), rent an apartment, etc.
2. Tell your friends and family. Rally some support. Tell them your truth. "I'm aiming to leave at the end of the school year and will need help moving while he's at work (see #3). Will you be able to help me move?"
3. The logistics: have all your mail and paperwork regarding your rental sent to a friend or family member's house so he doesn't find it. The day of the move, wait until he's gone to work, have friends arrive a half hour after he leaves, and be all moved out at least an hour before he comes home.
4. Go introduce yourself to the police - both the nearest station to your old house and the nearest one to your new place. 
5. Hire a lawyer, ask for a TRO (temporary restraining order). If DH is emotionally and verbally abusive to your kid(s) ask the judge that he not be allowed visitation unless supervised until he has completed anger management classes.

My friends and I moved a friend being abused by her husband out and the above is how we did it. [/quote]

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