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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Really appreciate the views shared. I am trying to come to accept my wife as being a permanent SAH, though it's not our original agreement. House we bought was on the promise from her that she'd return to work. If this doesn't happen, our expenses are too high for my income. So I was thinking to tell her that if things don't change in 18 months we would sell the house, and adjust our lifestyle accordingly. I realize this sounds like an ultimatum which I would avoid but that's the gist. I admit it is 95% a money issue and 5% a principle issue.[/quote] I think you are within perfect right to do this and in fact are being more than fair, if you really did have an "original agreement" about how this was going to work. She has changed the terms on you, but you are still giving her a choice. She either helps pay for this house, or you live in something smaller that you can afford on one income. How can anyone criticize that logic?[/quote]
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