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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Take over the finances. Don't leave him alone with your child until your child is old enough to take care of him/her self.

Any damage he inflicts on himself is on him.[/quote]

To add - make sure he has a great life insurance policy [/quote]

The damage cannot be on him only, we are family, there is no way out for me. 
Say he goes skiing and overestimates his skills, breaks his ankle, is taken to ER, etc. I end up taking care of the child, driving H to work and doctor appointments, keeping track of all medical bills and being on it with insurance, etc. 
Or say he goes on a day trip, loses his wallet. I need to come get him, with the kid in tow, plus deal with canceling and reordering credit cards (one of the cards is joint). 
For some reason, things like this happen to him, not to me, and only when I am not around. And I don't want to, say, go skiing just to keep an eye on him if its nit my cup of tea.[/quote]

LOL!

You do have issues OP.  The situations you describe are run of the mill and could happen to anyone. [/quote]

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