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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]onestly, the lying would bother me the most.

I don't like strip clubs, for a variety of reasons, but if my husband went because it was part of a bachelor party, I'd probably say once that I wasn't crazy about it but that I understood, and trusted him not to cross any lines. But if he lied about it? I'd be super pissed. [/quote]

OP here, exactly! :([/quote]

Op.  I don't have  a problem with strip clubs but I do agree that the lying here is a big problem.  In all honesty, if you want some good advice from this forum, I'd consider deleting this topic and posting a new one specifically talking about the lying.  People here get pretty hung on the whole strip club issue, but for you, lying seems to be the biggest problem.   In all honesty, I'd tell your husband you came across the email.  You have his password so he knows you have access to it.  If you're this upset by it (and lets be honest with increased pregnancy hormones as the months go by as well as keeping it inside, it will just get worse) I see no reason to call your husband out on it.  I understand the pressure from him by his friends (my brother recently went through this as a best man) and him wanting to please the groom, etc.  I'm going to get off track so I'll finish up by saying, confront him just about the strip club issue since that was what you agreed on.  Don't make it about your self esteem, don't bring up the casino (honestly he'll see half naked girls at most bars), and don't bring up any thoughts of him not being faithful.  Just have a conversation about the fact that he said he wouldn't go to a strip club and now he is.  If he's a good and reasonable husband, he'll figure out a way around the strip club.  [/quote]

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