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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was in my mid 20's, my BF of 5 years broke up with me out of the blue. Cut me off completely. I was a mess and couldn't believe how heartless and spineless he was after all that time. Cutting me off cold turkey was painful but it made it much easier to move on- there was no chance of me misunderstanding his intentions. I moved on quickly- dated a lot and then met my now husband.

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Exact same thing happened to me. OP, you have done your ex a favor because he will deal with his heartbreak and then be able to move on to a relationship with someone better suited to him.
No need to feel guilty - you broke it off without any mixed signals and were willing to end contact for his sake...my best friend recently had her heart broken and her ex kept trying to contact her after she told him she needed space to heal - what a selfish jerk.
So go and enjoy your date, but just a warning - you are freshly broken up and in the "relief" stage, but as time goes on, you will probably miss your ex. If this or another date doesn't go well, or you feel lonely, you may start remembering the good times, which is totally normal and can be a bit confusing. The challenge is not confusing those feelings with a desire to get back with your ex - remember that you wouldn't have broken it off with him without good reason.[/quote]

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