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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does DH say about this, since this is his family ? If it were my own mom, I'd probably ask that we not open gifts together in such a situation (can't do anything about the favoritism but at least the kids should learn that generally it's bad form to be so obvious about it.) Perhaps DH should be refereeing this one. [/quote] He doesn't see it (or doesn't want to admit it). He is one of three, and his brother and I completely agree on this issue and it has slowly opened up his eyes, but he values being with family. I might talk with my BIL and see if we can come to an understanding. There is no question who the favorite grandchildren are, so my BIL might be helpful here. [/quote] OP, DH will probably never "see" it. Too hurtful. Perhaps you can change the GPs, but perhaps not. I have definitely noticed that the recipient of the "extras" never "sees" it the same way. just human nature.[/quote]
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