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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a low-drive spouse, I can say fairly confidently that his lack of sex drive has *nothing* to do with you.

That's not to say it shouldn't bother you, but it shouldn't bother you for that particular reason.

[b]I think you sound insecure and immature, needing outside approval and praise so much[/b] that you'd break up your family in search of it.

(Again, I'm not saying sex isn't important in a marriage.  But in this case, you yourself said that's not really what you care about.)[/quote]

I agree with this. Your need for sex is tied up in your self esteem and that is a red flag to me.  Do you enjoy sex because you are horny and need to get off or do you use it as some sort of self validating tool?[/quote]

What a weird question. Of course sex is tied to self esteem and self validation (?), why wouldn't it be?[/quote]

Wait pp, you don't enjoy sex because it makes your body feel good? y'know the kiss,  touch, the caress, all of that doesn't make blood rush to your most sensitive areas? producing that tingling sensation that sends you over the edge?

Or what do you think of when you have sex? "I feel pretty, oh so pretty..."?[/quote]

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