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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to keep setting firm boundaries and not worry so much about what others think. Examples: continue to not let him be alone with your kid/s. Do not let DH take them to your Dad's house unless DH is completely on-board with this. I would not let him "just drop by" and only do scheduled visits. Do not let your Dad run the show here. You get to make the best choices for you a your family, and protecting your kid/s should be your #1 priority, NOT placating your Dad or other family members, or even your DH. In your initial message you wrote that he hasn't fondled - I'm not sure if this was a mistake or if you're partially in denial. It would be very unlikely for so many people in different settings to accuse your father of this. Please don't enable his "fondling" (aka abuse) by pretending as if it's not an issue.[/quote]
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