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Reply to "Did you ever break up with your spouse while dating?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, and had I been savvy, I would have realized that the reasons for the breakup (at least the primary one) was a character flaw (dishonesty) that would not change. I did not realize this, continued on and divorced 8 years after getting married. If only I could turn back the clock, but hindsight is 20/20 and I learned A LOT. I wish there was forum like this back then...b/c I'm certain I would have been told to run for the hills. Nobody told me in real life. I blame myself for the decision, but I was also naive. But like most people say, there is a reason you break up. If it's a deal breaker, make sure it has changed before you consider getting back together (he wasn't willing to commit, you hadn't sorted out religious differences). If, as you say, it's personality issues -- those will not change and prepare to deal with them for years or you better get to counseling. Communication is one I can see being worked out.[/quote]
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