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Reply to "s/o: If you have infrequent sex with spouse, were you initially sexually attracted to them?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I was not. Or I was, until we actually had sex, and it was not arousing or satisfying at all. Since I was attracted to him in many other ways, I worked on the sex part until I could at least orgasm, but it was never that great. I married him thinking it could get better over time as we "put the work in" to the marriage, as PP said, but that never happened. The emotional intimacy and financial stability I was attracted to fell apart and sex tanked along with it. I know this is my fault since I knew the sex was not good for me from the start, but I can't will away the feeling of physical revulsion and recoil I feel now when he touches me. I have tried to will it away and I can't.[/quote]
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