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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We are in marriage counseling, I have my own therapist. Perhaps it was obvious but we were very young and I didn't see it. It has gotten much worse as our responsibilities have increased and I am more dependent on him to make our day to day life "work". I asked how to help him, but of course the criticism falls on me. [/quote] Yep, I get that fully. My husband is quite ADHD and I've learned I can't put important things on him. End of story. It sucks sometimes because I carry the lion's share of the load, and after the kids have grown, it might be too much of a burden physically to stay. When we are younger, we think love cures everything. It doesn't. It's not about love, it's about quality of life. You need to determine what you can and can't give on and draw your box. You can help by being clear and emotionally detached. [/quote]
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