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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Already did it. Guess it was a mistake. Will try not to do it again. [/quote]

PP here.  [b]TRY not to do it again?  Oh, HELL NO!  Listen to me.  I am screaming at you now because I've lived and learned.  YOU are better than this!  He came out and said he wasn't ready for a commitment, right?  There are no nuances, no underlying meanings there, no symbolism.  He honestly told you he wasn't that into you.

Yes, it's heartbreaking.  Yes, it's sad.  You're pissed off, sad, weepy, angry and at times, miss him so much that you'd do just about anything to have him back.  So, grieve this loss.  Cry when you have to, alone.  Let it all out.  But, chin up and tell yourself that you are moving on.  Moving on means forging ahead.  Waking up, going to work, focusing on your job, you, other friends, other things, retail therapy, whatever gets you through and keeps you busy enough so you'll not call him or email him or text him.  [/b]
I've had my heart broken more times than I care to count.  I fall hard and fast...but somewhere along the way I decided that I would not give a man the satisfaction of groveling or pleading or even acting like I care after he'd broken it off.  Plus, twice I had the tremendous satisfaction of having an ex boyfriend come crawling back to me, asking me to meet just more more time...and smugly saying no.

It takes time, but get back out there!  Sometimes when you're the most vulnerable, you're more likely to meet the right person.  I am a believer in and practioner of rebound relationships. You get sick of the drama, the heartbreak and disappointment and when you meet someone bereft of all these things, you can relax and fall in love with his normalcy![/quote]

+100 You tell it, girl!! OP,hope you're listening![/quote]

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