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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I read posts like OP's I can't help but wonder if he/she is just deflecting. It's so much easier to focus on how your spouse isn't meeting your needs than to examine your own shortcomings. The only person you can change in any relationship is yourself. I wonder what OP has done to engage in activities that are important to spouse. What has OP done to inquire what spouse wants to do? What has OP done to celebrate what spouse is good at and enjoys? Marriage is a give and take. One person does not meet every single need. But you can celebrate what your partner brings to the relationship. [/quote] +1 this is great wisdom that I wish more and more people would take seriously - especially those who frequent this thread.[/quote]
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