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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But , how can somebody abandon their kid. I just couldn't. I would fight and fight and fight to be with me kid. I don't get it[/quote]

You have to let go of not getting it. There is never just one perspective in life, if you can't fathom any other experience or perspective than your own, there is really no point in talking to him. People give up the fight for many reasons...[/quote]

He didn't fight. He abandoned us and did not try to see me at all. [/quote]

Maybe he was never an involved parent in any way. Maybe he never bonded with you right from birth, maybe he didn't spend much time with you between 0 and 4. If that as the case, it might have been easier for him to walk away because he wasn't connected to you, he didn't know you as his child, he didn't experience really being a father.
Seeing as he has older kids who also didn't grow up with him, did he walk away from them too? 
What has your mother told you about him and what he was like with you when you were young?
Did you ever see him again after 4?[/quote]

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