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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your SIL might be lonely.  Try to have compassion for her and also avoid her when you feel oppressed by her, like excuse yourself politely from the room sometimes.[/quote]

This, OP, this. But I don't see any ability for compassion in your post.

You hate her for the huge sin of...not being you.

Know how to send a wife into depression? Focus on petty stuff and obsess over your SIL. Keep score constantly. Expend far, far too much mental energy and take up to much of your own mental real estate with cataloguing everything about SIL that annoys you. That's a great way to waste your brain cells, waste your time and, yes, make your wife hate you too.

OP, get help and find out why you are so focused on all this. You seem to expect SIL to be your perfect self and help you precisely how you want to be helped. You know from experience she won't do that, so why bother with all the anger? Granted she's annoying. But you are not married to her. So why does she suck up so much of your mental energy?[/quote]

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