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[quote=Anonymous]So did the food and gifts just get left in the kitchen? Did you get to eat it yourself and open the gifts? Op it sounds like you were at the breaking point and took the break you needed. It does sound though you are a bit of a martyr, trying to do it all and in doing so enabling DH to be 'lost' in his ADHD. So much of organization and planing (and all the executive functioning tasks) require practice and repetition. You need checklists and then you need to let him practice. Your kids are old enough too to be starting to learn through practice to take responsibility too. You can't do it all, nor should you. Maybe you need an ADHD coach who would come to the house and work with all 3 to help them get routines and checks in place. It shouldn't be your job to do that either. I hope you had a restful day. [/quote]
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