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Reply to "Skipped T-day dinner: Long - just wanting someone to listen"
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[quote=Anonymous]You had options that day. That will provide you with some ways to cope. I assume you have 2 cars, you could have driven your self and arrived later- at your convenience. You could have brought the kids' medications, you could have brought food for the car (in anticipation of husband's behavior) Yes it's a pain. Yes it's more than anyone should have to do since things should be more equal, but this is your life. You know, but what you did by not attending if fine too. Just try to stay flexible. Know that he WILL NOT be thinking about your needs. It's just the way it is. You will need to anticipate your needs- and what you can do/are willing to do -without- resentment. That's the key- give only to the extent that you don't resent. If you need help at home -you make the most money- you hire it. Don't discuss with him. Get the hired help you need. He will not change, learn to live with it on your terms.[/quote]
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