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[quote=Anonymous]I also read your post. I feel your last sentence I'd confusing. After reading your post, I feel your husband maybe ADHD, but he is also a self-centered shit.  Your descriptions are not that of a "good guy" with ADHD who didn't take his meds today. You have described a man who is selfish and manipulative.

Today, you did the right thing. You felt sad and blue, and you didn't want to go and just play the part of the goyem maid.

You are not just a mother, wife and maid!  You are are human being with feelings and you deserve to be treated with consideration. You write and express yourself well. You work hard and you are sensitive. Your husband has issues in which he has become accustomed to have you always available to fix his life. You were not there and I can assure you that he missed your presence. Things went wrong for him tonight and you weren't there to fix them. He was on his own and he missed you, because you are the one who makes him whole. Without you are part of him is missing.

You are a valuable person and you deserve to be treated as such. In the future when treats you poorly or his assumptions are incorrect, simply refuse to go with him.

He will need to understand that until you have a greater degree of shared responsibility, common courtesy, and mutual respect you will not accompanying him any longer.

He will have to make some small accommodations to make your life more livable and if he wants to make those changes he can. If he refuses over a period of time to make these small changes, you can't be expected to live the next sixty years living as a his goyem maid.  [/quote]

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