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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those of you who are pro mess dress, are you military spouses or civilians? Before I married into the military, or in the very early years of our marriage, I would have said mess dress, without a doubt. After years of being a military spouse, my answer is firmly tux, since that is what OP wants. I would also say tux if I was in the same situation. I believe all of my military spouse friends would also say tux over mess dress, but my sisters and non military friends would say mess dress, very enthusiastically. [/quote] 22 yr AF wife, 11 yr Navy officer here. If he wants mess dress, he should wear it, unless she knows something about her work environment that would be hostile toward it. He's a big boy and should be allowed to dress himself. FWIW, my DH is always trying to convince ME to wear the mess dress for formal events. No way - it's ugly, don't own one, not spending money on that! I'd much rather wear a nice gown or cocktail dress. My body, my choice. His body, his choice.[/quote]
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