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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see why other posters are insulting this poor OP - it seems perfectly reasonable to want a day off at home (buying the turkey etc) and at other times planning vacations well so that everyone can enjoy them. Whereas her husband seems to be more "spontaneous" and frankly much too impulsive and self-centered. Then he guilt-trips her into going and pretending she's enjoying it? What a waste of family time and money. [/quote] Thank you pp! This is exactly how I feel but I thought I would lay it out here. I have suggested several options as a compromise, what else can I do? I have planned vacations before and he never seemed unhappy. I have also been on vacation alone with our child (to see relatives) - he preferred not to go as it seemed too boring to him to spend time around too many kids- I never said a word. I hate that he is indeed guilt tripping me. "You are preventing the kid from having fun". Yeah, right. [/quote]
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