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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.
I am not against Vegas per se.
I don't like the 10 hour drive. Yes, he will learn the hard way, but I will be tired too- too much for me to just make him "learn".
I suggested we did a shorter trip right now- he said no. I suggested we went to Vegas later, by plane, when there is a deal on tickets etc- no, this is not going to happen, as I will sabotage this (he claims).
He just wants to see the city and hang out, maybe do a show that is good for kids. I understand and I would be all for it, but not 4 days before the trip and not with a 10 hr drive.

I see what posters are saying who think I am the one distancing in the relationship. But I just can't. I said ok to shorter trips before, I didn't particularly enjoy them but thanked him anyway and never showed that.
[b]His new idea is a trip 5 hours away on a Friday, spending Saturday there, and driving back on Sunday.[/b] He does nit see my arguments that its impossible to see much with a kid in this mode of travel. 
I feel like I am trapped- I am the marriage breaker unless I agree to his ideas which seem uncomfortable for me. [/quote]

This seems like a good compromise.[/quote]

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