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[quote=Anonymous]I'm not sure what advice to give you, because I guess I look at things differently than other women here...I also work FT, same job actually as dh (in a quasi-Fed agency) but I view the basic running of the interior of our home as my terrain. NOT saying I have to DO all of it-but I need to make sure it's running smoothly.

If I needed to hire a cleaning service to accompish that, I would. Or if I had to iron our uniforms (I don't,thankfully) then I'd send them out because I hate ironing. But I'm not going to just not wash his clothes or leave his dishes in the sink.

I have been training my kids and as teens/tweens, they are a huge help. Dh does everything outside and with maintaining our vehicles. He does not resent me because I don't garden (not well, I kill plants) or change oil. I CAN help and do if needed, and so does he, in the house.

What I'm saying is-you've got to manage your household in such a way that it doesn't cause resentments in your marriage.[/quote]

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