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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry English isn't my native langauge. So sometime it is difficult to write better when I'm trying to think and talk about more than one things.

Unfortunately, someone who Gabe look up to is his father's friend who is also in charge of his inherit. They are close so I can see Gabe easily manipulate thing to get things his way. So I don't think this person exactly have that lady's best interest in mind.

I can try to set time with his counselor. Fortunatley he's a pretty good student so I'm sure he will at least come if he's asked to as he care about school.

I know Gabe is really unhappy at the moment and I can see he's bitter. Before the woman moved in, he was pretty happy kid. Despite of being alone, he was always having fun surfing, wind surfing, scuba diving, longboard, and boxing.
Then this lady moved in and took everything away from him because she deem it to be unsafe and bad infulence on other kids. His father end up do nothing to stand up for Gabe and Gabe end up not liking this woman at all.
In fact Gabe end up buy new things for all of those actives not long after his father died.

It is my fear that he'll end up hurt a lot of people as well. He doesn't want to live with me because he doesn't want to live with my family. Yet he is evicting this woman with three kids which eventually will leave him with no choice but to move back in with me and my family. I will not let him become emancipation minor. But I know he will never come to live with us willingly and is actively trying to find a condo on his own to buy when he sold the house. 
I've not told him that yet and am not looking forward to it.
Despite of not liking the woman very much, I do feel really bad for her and her kids, but the eviction note have already been gave and Gabe refused to change his mind or talk about it.

I did put Gabe first, but he was only 8 when I moved in with my husband and his two kids. I thought he'd be ok, but it didn't work out. That's why I let him move in with his father. He was doing well until his father met this woman. 
When his father met this woman, he pretty much just bribed Gabe with money  and things so he can spend more time with this woman. Then when this woman and her family moved in with them this summer, Gabe's father saw how hard it was to try make thing work with Gabe and other kids. So Gabe's father end up start to bribing Gabe more to try keep Gabe from rebelling so much. 
Four months later, in September, Gabe's father got in a car accident that killed him. So Gabe end up inherit everything and he's close to his father's friend who is in charge of his inherit until Gabe is eighteen. No surprise Gabe easily manipulate everything.

I wish I'd have knew more about all of this so I could have done something before it get this bad. Unfortunately, I didn't know much about this until recently. That's why I'm trying to seek some option or help. [/quote]

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