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[quote=Anonymous]Too many yellow flags here: 1) Please verify his arrest/restraining order record. Some women *are* liars like that. 2) An ex can make it harder for Dad to see the kids but can't make it impossible. We're getting into the realm of "she'd have to pay lawyer fees for both parties here." 3) Very soon after your divorce but if you're more than a year past separation, then meh, I'm not going to add to the Greek chorus here. 4) You'd think after one or two incidents where "he was drinking, she wasn't, she called and claimed she was hit," he'd stop drinking around her. I'd at a minimum do these: 1) Verify his stories. 2) Consult with a lawyer and a victim's rights group to know your rights and know the warning signs of domestic abuse. 3) Have your friends and family meet this guy. If one out of ten people dislike him, big deal. If the opinion is nearly universally against him, PLEASE consider that. [/quote]
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