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[quote=Anonymous]Did you read the part where the kids are teenagers? [quote=Anonymous]Hello time machine - clearly we've rolled the clock back to 1956. Marriage counseling. Trade places for a week. (Obviously she can't do your job but she can go do a temp job for a week while you do everything she does. Everything.) Then talk. Send her on vacation for 2 weeks while you stay home. Then talk. Build your household budget together - give her a reasonable percentage of your income to cover all household expenses, day to day small expenditures, food/clothing/activities for her and the kids, etc... Let her decide those numbers (within the confines of the budget that makes sense within your income) and then let her manage the money. Treat her as an equal partner (you do not sound like you view her that way at all BTW). Marriage counseling. Financial counseling. Time off for her. Time spent doing the work of the family for you. Maybe a job outside the home for her if she wants it - not because you are scornful of her. Marriage counseling. I'll be sending supportive thoughts her way and wishing you all good luck. Doesn't sound like a family I'd want to be in (in any role).[/quote][/quote]
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